Monday, August 31, 2020

Decorating

My time last week I figured out my little desk corner.  I added all the family history pictures I have collected over the years.  It feels cozy to me now and I have a place to continue my family history work that I love working on.  Be so glad when we can attend the temple again.  We only live a couple minutes away from the Draper temple.  I love feeling close to the temple.  https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=15_dG670X94BGwMlNXmt5DtldzTe4fP-8https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=179ywXRPubn97ymaGGCQaqjoco3z3ExaM
I need to add pictures to the frames.  I have lots of old pictures.  Many dating over a 100 years old.  Fun to put them in frames and share with the family as they visit our home.  I love working on family history.  I have missed having my own working space.

Coles 1st Week

I was wondering how Coles first week has gone being in Alaska -  Sharlena sent us these pictures today. Brings a big smile to my face.  https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1X2S164jzX_9PJVMcfXHE69LIe3nn3pLS
This is his little house that he lives in for now. It is so tiny !! Love the pictures she sent to us. 
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This will be such an amazing experience for him.  

Sunday, August 30, 2020

Our Cora Rose

Look who is getting her first tooth!!https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1jxKuNeocUBDGYNiJtNisSvHSyA8R-qsrhttps://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1gLGngquztLSZI3V69kNBPuAI8xNDdznh
Sunday Morning - the first thing Craig said to me this morning was he wanted to drive down to the see the grandkids.  He was missing our Annie and baby Cora-  I felt the same I was all for heading out-  it cheered my spirits.  I came down last Sunday with Lavon, Craig’s Mother- she slept over and headed out Monday morning early.  I stayed in town till Thursday morning.  It felt so nice to have some time alone and enjoy our Draper home.  I’m met Dolly at the Veterans Hospital to drive back up to the Lake. She broke her foot and wanted to know if I would drive her back to the lake.  I told her I would already be in town so I could drive her back. Tasha took me downtown to met up with her.  We had a good drive and Chatted all the way.  Coming back up to the lake was emotionally hard for me with our grandsons all gone.  Saturday I felt a heavy cloud over shadow me.  I have been struggling for a awhile now- feeling I’m done.  I’m ready to come back to our Draper home.  Craig will have been serving in the Bishopric three years the middle of September.  I have given it an honest effort to love and serve the members in the Garden City Ward.  We meet at church for the first time since March our last Sunday - With the virus we have not gathered.  Looking around I knew all those there- and felt I’m done.  The people are so different and I’m ready for a change.  They are not people I really want to associate with. There are so few and I’m just done.  I’m trying to support Craig- but I’m just done is all I can say.  I didn’t plan on moving and living forever at the lake and now I’m ready to make a change.  Cindi Caldwell and Darren- her husband came to spend the weekend with us.  They are moving to California. She was one of my best friends and now she is gone.  Hard to see her leave.  She was sad to be leaving-she has been living at the lake for 10 years.  Moving on to a new stage in their life.  I just became overwhelmed after they left- saying our good byes.  That afternoon I felt so sad and just wanting to go back to draper- feeling what do I do with myself? I just feel so done with living fulltime at the lake. The kids back in school leaves us with a sense of loneliness.  I can feel a
Chill in the air and fall is coming.  I became so depressed I just wanted to go to sleep.  This virus is taking it's toll in not gathering.  I had hope we would be serving a mission by fall and now that is not going to happen.  I just crawled in my bed and checked out! Living at Bear lake can be very depressing to me.  It has been a contrast struggle for me.  I want to make Craig happy and I have to compromised to make our marriage work and stay together.  Coming back down has greatly lift my spirts to see the Thomas grandkids today.  It was so fun to have dinner with them -sitting outside enjoying the last of our summer days.  Baby Cora is so adorable.  It was so special to have Craig and Bridger administer the sacrament and have a lesson with the kids as Bridger taught his family about the plan of salvation. It warmed my spirit - the Medicine I needed to cheer me up.  Pray for the strength and courage I need to stay the course, pray we can figure out what is our new plan for the future.  Staying at the lake is going to be really hard for me when my heart is not there.  I’m just going thru the motions.  This move has been much harder on me than I ever could imagine.  We are coming up on four years now rebuilding our lives in a new location has been really hard for me.  
Pray for the direction I need!! 

Wednesday, August 26, 2020

The RNC

The Republican convention was very moving for me tonight I felt that I was so proud to be an American and at the same time so sad to see such contention that is going on in rioting and looting in our big cities -the destruction and brutality is devastating - there are many who have forgotten the importance of our freedom and liberty in living in a great country.  I love the post from my sister I wanted to copy in my blog: This is not a means of discussion. With me or against me, I love you all the same. Vote with your heart. I know I will be.

In just three months, it will be over. The U.S. presidential election, I mean. Not the end of the world. But maybe the end of our nation, as we have known it. No I will not be voting for Biden.... I am not voting for a man. I am not rallying for a personality. I am not pushing a person. At this point, I am voting for one thing and one thing only. I am voting for the principles for which this country has stood since it’s founding. I am voting for Constitutional government. I am voting for a strong and viable military. I am voting for a vibrant economy. I am voting for the right to keep and bear arms. I am voting for the freedom to worship. I am voting for a national recognition of the founding of our nation on Biblical principles. I am voting for the ability for anyone to rise above their circumstances and become successful. I am voting for my children and grandchildren to be able to choose their own path in life, including how and where their children are educated. I am voting for our borders to be open to everyone who enters under our law and closed to everyone who would circumvent or ignore the law. I am voting for the Electoral College to remain in place, so that a few heavily populated liberal centers do not control the elections. I am voting for a Supreme Court that interprets the Constitution rather than rewrites it. I am voting to teach history, with all of it’s warts, not erase it or revise it. I am voting for the sanctity of life from conception to birth and after. Now, there are some things I am voting against. I am voting against open borders. I am voting against a rampant welfare system that enslaves it’s recipients. I am voting against socialism, in all of it’s forms, including health care, redistribution, reparations, economics, governmental control, pedophilia, and criminal releases, etc. I would rather pay for prison reform then see the criminals released to repeatedly commit the same crimes!
So, although I don’t give blanket approval to everything our President has done or said in the past, I do support him as our president! I am not voting against Joe Biden, but I am voting against every thing that the party backing him and propping him up stands for. It is not the Democratic Party of the past. Three months is all we have. –https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1T6f7bL6opV5a42pjWkej21PTaEqmSkDy
Love this photo taken at the lake - Pray for freedom for our children and grandchildren to uphold in the future - I love America !! 

Boating Party

Craig hosted the young men and young women boating party at our place last night.  I’m sure he missed having me there.  I know it is a lot of work after we have hosted the past four summers.  I still have a sour taste in my mouth so to speak from my serving as young women president- not fond memories for me.  So glad I was not there.  Craig said they had a great time- turned out over 20 youth showed up.  Craig kept busy in the boat pulling everyone.   Summer is coming to a close.  It is still hot here in the Salt lake valley. I got up and took a walk at 8:30 and it was already too hot for me. I’m enjoying my time resting in our Draper home. Going shopping for a few hours and hoping to connect with Shannon today and take little Ashtyn to Lunch.  

Tuesday, August 25, 2020

Ivy City

Tasha posted this picture of her and Annie on her online dress business.  I love this picture !! It is so 
beautiful!  I love it so much I want to blow it up to hang in my Draper Guest Room. 
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Chocolate Cake

Before I left town-  I made a chocolate cake for the first time.  I’m not a cake maker but tired to do a good job for a sister in our Ward.  Sister Negus, it is for her birthday.  Her hubby wanted to surprise her when they get home and wanted a chocolate cake.  So I gave it my best effort.  I covered raspberry leaves in chocolate and placed on the cake-  it was a learning time for me and I have a lot of appreciation for those who do make lovely cakes.   They are a lot of  Work!! 

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Michael Left For Home

Michael has stayed the summer with us and he packed up today to head back home.  We have enjoyed having him.  Craig sent me a cute text note today -  Michael is pack up and heading home. Gunna miss him. Can’t stop crying 😢. I’m such a boob.  It’s been fun having him this summer.  He will be stopping at Lincoln’s on his way down.  I replied - I know I’m going to miss you too !! I was crying when Cole left now Michael, You are going to be lonely tomorrow just knowing he is gone leaves a void for us.  We had a fun summer with our grandsons staying with us- it went by all to fast!!   He sent me a picture just Me and phantom- our cat https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1e2uBCSVSEnSph4z8ef25tDoY7TaQB43j
I rode down Sunday afternoon with Scott  & Jan, and his mother Lavon, she has not seen our new home in Draper.  We had dinner at Texas Road house with my niece Kelly and her husband Jason.  Lavon and I picked up her car at Scott’s home and headed to our home in Draper.   We were tired-  We visited and then went to Visit Trisha and her family.  Lavon wanted to see their new home.  We got back to our place about 9:30 pm and went to bed -  I was so tired from our day of driving and visiting.  Lavon left for her home in St. George first thing Monday morning.  I was still so tired I just stayed home for the morning and then ran a few errands.  I just didn’t feel like doing much.  I went to RC Willy to pay our monthly payment on the things we have bought for our new place and shop around a little just not seeing anything I really wanted.  I only have a few things left to buy in my decorating.  I went to Walmart and looked around and then headed back to our Draper home.  I spent the evening watching the Republic convention. It started last night.  Today I have been slow getting out.   I’m just dragging I’m sure from our busy summer with all the family.  It feels nice to rest and take some time out to myself.  I’m enjoying the peace and quite. Today I went to Cafe Rio for lunch I love their pork tostada salad.  I then got gas in the Corvette- went to Ross, TJ max homes goods and At Home- my favorite home décor stores.  I did find some really fun- "At the lake dishes- I have never seen before so I had to buy them.  I don’t last long shopping.  Home for the evening now.  Going to watch day two of the convention.  Craig is having the young men over for a boating activity tonight.  We are going to be so lonely with all the kids back in school and Michael and Cole gone now.  It is a lonely feeling.   

Cole Left For His Mission

I’m leaving on a jet plane-  https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1io3Y2tJQ3bcu2EDuJZ0hkqSirmNcmbHp
Cole at the airport Early Monday morning August 24th wirh his Dad Dave.  There were tears from all of us seeing him leave for 2years. He arrived safely in Anckorage, Alaska.  
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Cole wirh his mission president-  
Sharlena sent us a message today - Just got a call from Cole... he landed in Anchorage, met the mission President and his wife, and was then put back on a plane ✈️ to Fairbanks. 
He is now driving to Delta Junction with his companion. A new area that opened up just 3 months ago. With a population of only 1,000 people. It is 350 miles North of Anchorage. He’s also in quarantine for two weeks..  Poor Missionary he has to be shut in again!! 
So anixous to hear how things go for him in his new location.  

Friday, August 21, 2020

Family Dinner

With Craig’s Mother in town for the weekend.  I fixed a nice dinner for us all.  Sister Malm our compassionate leader in our ward called yesterday to see if I could fixed dinner for a lady and her three kids that lives in Bear Hollow low housing apartments.  Those that live there live on a very low income and always seem to need help.  This lady I have never met and is not a member of the church apparently needed a meal.  I told sister Malm I would cook for her family a dinner today.  So while I’m at it I cooked extra so I could invite Scott, Jan, Craig’s mother to eat with us.  It was a lot of work for me.  I’m really tired now.  It all turned out yummy.  I fixed Michael’s favorite meal chicken Parmesan.  I also made banana brownies.  I got the recipe from Tammy -our game night friend.    She made it last month for our dinner.  I have never had banana brownies before.  They were so yummy!  Mine turned out good too.  Fun to make something new.   We all had a nice time visiting.   This has been a blessed day.   The weather is strange with so much smoke in the air from the many fires that surround us.   The entire county seems to be in an uproar!! Fires out of control in California, the worst ever.  Drought years causing lots of dead trees to burn.   Riots all over the large cities with looting and killing.’ The death rate has increased greatly. The stores are all boarded up from the looting.  The whole country is in an uproar- this is not a time for peace.  Yet we find peace in Christ I have to remind myself ’Heavenly Father knows what is going on - he will lead us through these troubled times.  

Thursday, August 20, 2020

Fun Thursday

Craig’s Mother LaVon came in town last night.  We met her, Scott and Jan for lunch at Cafe Sabor at 12:30.  We then visited on our porch for a hour enjoying the beautiful weather.  It has been over cast a lot so it has felt nice to not have the sun bearing down on us.  We then met at the Marina to take them all for a boat ride.  Michael and Craig surfed.  Jan and Scott tried for the first time.  It is tricky.  Jan tried it fully dressed.  She got big A for trying , she was almost there.  I’m too scared to even try.  It scares me being so close to the back of the boat.  There are fires going on- the air is so thick it is hard to see across the lake. We all had a great time boating.  I’m meeting three of my Bear lake friends to play pickleball tonight. Craig played last night.  He was so sore his knee was really hurting him  when he got home.  It has felt nice to relax today.  I worked hard yesterday cleaning up and went boating with our friends from our Draper  neighborhood before we moved- the Van Slooten’s it was so nice to see them while they were visiting this week.  Glad they gave us a call.  Fun to see friends from our past surroundings.  I do miss our friend since we moved to the lake.  They did the same thing we did- sold their Draper home and moved to their vacation home in Heber.  It has been an adjustment for Nancy too.  We had fun visiting and totally related the same feelings.  We are blessed to have good friends.  It takes effort to say in touch.  Theresa Collins my dear friend over the years celebrated her birthday on Tuesday we plan to go to lunch the next time I’m in town.  Going to enjoy my time playing Pickleball for a few hours. 

Cole’s Endowment Session

I needed to take time to share about attending the Temple with Cole.  
He has been with us at the lake for 5 weeks working 10 or more hours a day mission training online. The temples have all closed due to the virus restrictions worldwide.  A first in my lifetime to have the temple closed for an extended time.  It has been since the end of March- 5 months. Just last week they announced opening 12 temple s for living endowment sessions.  Which we were so happy to see  the Bountiful temple was on the list- which meant Cole could received his endowment before leaving on his mission.  There were over 3,ooo calling for an appointment and so blessed that Cole was able to get a time slot.   He was scheduled for 3pm Tuesday afternoon August 18th, 2020. We were honored as grandparents to be invited to attend with Cole, his parents and grandmother Noriega too.  We were the only ones in the session.   I had five family names for us to complete- it felt so good to be back in the temple and feel the a calm peaceful feeling and a closeness to our Heavenly Father.  A feeling I experience no where but in the temple.  Our last time to be in the bountiful temple was 2009 when Natasha our youngest daughter received her personal endowment at the same temple.  I had forgotten how beautiful it is sitting in the Celestial room.  It is so amazingly beautiful.  I didn’t want to leave.  In 2009 I had just sang in the temple choir for the dedication session of the Draper Temple and then that after noon attended the Bountiful temple with our own daughter and future son-in-law and his parents.  I was engulfed in a holy ray of exceeding joy from my experience in the Draper temple dedication Standing in the Celestial room arms length for the prophet of the Lord Thomas S. Monson and feeling the presence of Angels surrounding me as we sang with those in our choir - we all felt it as we sang the Hosanna Shout.  When attending the Bountiful temple that afternoon I had a temple sister come up to me and tell me I was engulfed in a Halo of light- I was glowing- she could see the light surrounding me. I was so surprised by her comment at first- I told her I had truly been in the presence of angels just this morning while I attended the dedication of the Draper Temple-  it had been a glories experience for me that I did not want to end.  It has been so special to reflect on this profound experience in my life and now to feel that same joy as we attend the endowment session with our Grandson Cole, our first grandson to receive his endowment in preparation to serve his mission.  So grateful he is able to be armed with protection now wearing his holy garments, as a shield of promise and protection from the powers of the destroyer as we strive to live righteously and faithful defending the Kingdom of God on the earth.   I loved the changes made in the endowment to allow us to attend the temple with the virus spreading- they made changes to keep us safe and still attend the temple.  I loved the simplicity added in the endowment session and I felt the Holy Spirit teaching me deeper meanings in the process of my years of attending the temple.  My study of the come follow lesson in my Book of Mormon studies have opened my mind to  a more broaden view of learning being taught by the Holy Spirit.  I know this is the true church of God on the earth today and the Lord is preparing a Zion people -to prepare the world for the millennium-  we need to live a higher law of righteousness in order to bring forth the millennial reign of our Savior Jesus Christ.  Teaching the gospel message is the saving hope for the entire world and so happy that our Cole is able to go into the world and help to do his part in sharing the gospel message.  Cole is going to be an amazing missionary!! So anxious for Craig and I to serve a mission soon too.  As soon as this virus allows us to go back into the world to teach the gospel as senior missionaries.  We are so blessed as grandparents.  It bring such joy to my heart to share the gospel with others. 
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Tuesday, August 18, 2020

Austin’s 15th Birthday

We celebrated Austin’s 15th Birthday last night.  We drove down and met at the Noriega home for dinner and celebrate his special day.  I can’t believe he is 15 years old.   He is going to so pass Craig up on height.  He has been so small for so long and is now growing taller.  We all chipped in on a snowboard pass for the winter.  He is really excited to learn how.  We had fun teaching him how to play pickleball on Cole’s p-day Saturday.  We played as a team and made a challenge to try to beat Cole and Craig it was a close game 10/8.  We love our Austin.  
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Sunday, August 16, 2020

Ward Letter

I wanted to share the letter Craig wrote this month to the ward members- 

8/2/2020

 Hello Brothers and Sister I trust you have had a crazy busy week.  Hopefully you are surviving the summer crowds and finding some time to enjoy this beautiful valley we call home.

As I mentioned, we have some of our Grandson’s staying with us this summer.  Last week in our conversation we mentioned that neither Sister Symes or myself had ever watched the Star Wars movies of the 80s.  They were astonished to here this and began a course of action to get us up to speed.  So for the last week and a half we have now seen the first 6 Star Wars movies which has taken about 13 hours.  We can now say that we are officially Star Wars fans, and are honing our skills to become Jedi’s of the Galaxy preserving all that is good.  

 

Although, I don’t remember all the characters in the movie I have had a chance to reflect back on the main theme.  While watching I noticed many parallels to the world in which we live.  There was Good vs Evil, Struggles, Challenges, disappointments ,desires to control and have power over others, and  Greed.  Sound Familiar ???  

 

Before we came to this earth life, in that great council, we were given an opportunity to grow and progress.  In this plan we understood there  would be challenges and yes even a risk of not making it back to Fathers presence.  The rewards were worth the risks so we chose to follow Heavenly Fathers plan.  So we came to this earth life, and yes there is Good vs Evil, Struggles, Challenges, disappointments, and Greed much the same as the characters in the movie were witnessing.  In the movie Anakin, Obi-Wan Kenobi , Luke Sky Walker and Yoda were able to fight against the evil empire with wisdom and knowledge they had learned and  of course the cool sword sabors of light.  

What do we have at our disposal?  How do we gain the  wisdom and knowledge needed to become successful in this life and withstand the fireiy darts that the advasary points our way ?  Where  can we find our sword sabors of light?

 

Our Father in Heaven has not left us without the tools necessary to accomplish this life’s journey.  Here are a few of those tools.   1.  A Prophet and living Apostles that gives guidance and direction See  ( Amos 3:7 ) also see Ephesians 4:11-13  2.  Prayer, even fasting and prayer See Proverbs 3:5, 

3.  Developing Faith and exercising that faith through good works see Alma Chapter 32.  And though we may not have that cool Sabor of light that Anakin and the rest of the Jedi’s had, we have an Iron Rod, which is the Word of God.  We all know how the song goes 

 

 “Hold to the Rod, the Iron rod; tis Strong, and Bright, and True. 

The Iron Rod is the Word of God;

Twill safely guide us through”

 

I am so thankful for the Come Follow me lessons we have to follow and learn from especially during this time of separation.  This week I’m especially gratetful for the Prophet Alma and is example of unconditional love for this family and his God.  We are so blessed in these latter days to have this book of Modern Scripture to help us through these challenging times.  

It is my prayer Brothers and Sisters that we can be strong, use the tools that we have been given to withstand the challenges and temptations that come our way.  Like those hero’s of those defending the Galaxy  have said “ May The Force Be With You “

 We love and appreciate each one of you.  We will be back together soon!!

 

 SLY- sure love you 

Brother Symes

Beautiful Full Moon

August 2nd - and it is a beautiful full moon tonight-  my camera on my phone is not able to capture the
true beauty.  The moon reflecting on the lake. 
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It has been a busy weekend for us. The Noriega family left about 7pm.  Aubrey had a soft ball Tournament in Logan.  We were able to go see her play Friday evening.  It was 100 degrees and very hot .  We were glad to be back at the lake Saturday- we took Jacob, Landon Austin and Michael boating. We had a lovely day at the lake.  Sharlena drove our car to Logan to go shopping with Cole and get the things he needs for his mission.  Today we have had a nice day.  Craig has Bishopric 8am.  I was able to read and study in our come follow me lesson for a few hours.  I fixed us all a nice dinner while the boys all played pickleball for a few hours.  I enjoyed spending time with Sharlena and Aubrey we visited the time away.  I made a yummy potato Salad, devil eggs- steamed vegetables and grilled boneless pork chops.  I made peach crisp for dessert.  I was tired after several hours in the kitchen on my feet.  We finished watching Star Wars series with Cole and Landon tonight.  I’m enjoying sitting out on our deck looking at the beautiful moon tonight.  The day has come to a close.  It is a beautiful summer evening enjoying it while it last.   

Our Last Week / Craig’s 65th Birthday

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This past week has gone by so quickly.   I rode back up to the lake with the Burbidge family on Thursday August 6th -my time in Draper was short.  It felt good to get things cleaned up at our draper home, shopping, rested a little and back to the lake.  It was Raspberry weekend so we had lots of people in town.  We went boating enjoyed the warm weather weekend.  Burbidge family went to the Raspberry fair.  Craig and I stayed home. I didn’t want to be around alot of people.    
The virus is still going around so still trying to be caution where I go.   Saturday is Cole’s p-day so we were able to play pickleball Saturday afternoon.  Burbidge family left Saturday late afternoon.  We sent Landon home with them.  He had a long three week stay with us.  It did go by quickly.  Sunday was a quite day for us- just Cole, Craig and I.  We had our first zoom relief society meeting and enjoy talking about personal revelation in our lives.  We only had 6 sisters sign in -so maybe next time there will be more to join in.  It is a very strange time not meeting due to the virus.  It has been since the middle of March our ward has not met together. I was the last speaker in our sacrament meeting the 15th of March.   We are all doing well and it has been a blessed 5 months for our family.  Monday, August 10th my dear Husband Craig celebrated his 65th birthday.  It was a quite day for us.  All the family were busy and I tried to get our game night friends gathered up but all were busy too, so we celebrated by going to Cooper’s for lunch with Cole - I gave Craig the few presents I got for him -two pairs of shorts and a new shirt with some new sandals.  He needed a few new summer clothes.  It was a nice lunch eating out.  We sang happy birthday at 8:45 pm and ate cheesecake.  Michael was coming back up to the lake but didn’t make it back up till after midnight so we didn't wait for him to eat cheesecake. Tuesday morning we played pickleball with friends at our new Bear lake courts.  Craig and I were strategizing- he told me to run to the far right corner of the court after he hit the ball.  In the process he got to the net just as I was crossing over and we collided into one another hard-  Craig was not moving it felt like I hit a Brick wall.  I fell hard on my left side hitting my elbow from the impact.  I was laying on the ground in pain.  I felt I was going to pass out.  My elbow was hurting so bad! That ended my pickleball playing for the day.  I had to come home and ice my arm.  I stayed in bed a few hours recovering from the impact of the fall.  I knew I was going to be sore and hurt more the second day- which I did.  I mange to slowly clean things up from the weekend and get ready for the Noriega family coming up Friday afternoon.  Wednesday morning we played pickleball again and I did ok.  It was my left side that hurt so didn’t effect much with me playing.  I just didn’t play very hard.  The week flew by for us.  I worked on hemming Coles white pants to wear to the temple.  Some of the temples opened up this week for living endowments so Cole is able to schedule an appointment this coming Tuesday at 3pm.  So excited for him to go to the temple now before he leaves on his mission on the 24th.  I took Michael & Cole to Cafe Sabor on Thursday night for the Thursday special- our favorite the sweet pork burrito.  Shar, Austin and Jacob spent the weekend with us.  Aubrey was in a soft ball tournament this weekend.  So exciting her team took 2nd place in their state tournament-  Dave is their couch.  Aubrey hit 2 home runs last night playing - so fun for her.  We had fun playing with Cole and Austin Pickleball a few hours yesterday afternoon.  We had dinner at Zips and our favorite Shake last night. Craig took us all for a boat ride- we were up late visiting our last night with Cole.  I fixed him a yummy breakfast,  waffles with apricot jam, syrup, topped with whipping cream and strawberries.  They were packing him up to spend his last week with his family before he leaves.  I got very emotional when I walked in his room this morning and saw all his things packed up.   We have loved having him here with us for 5 weeks.  The time went all to fast!! Craig was emotional too- we gathered as a family to say a family pray together before leaving. It has been a tender moment for us as grandparents.  We are so happy for Cole and the awesome missionary he will be.  It’s a quite day with them all gone now.  Time to clean up for another shift.  I’m resting today!  It is the Sabbath day and will be nice to rest and read my scriptures- study the come follow me lesson and continue my Book of Mormon study in my workbook study.  I’m behind but doing what I can do each day.  We are so very blessed https://drive.google.com/uc?export=view&id=1pn7gIym42MUvjfk8G-ZWGlLPMHWu9RSu
Lunch at Coopers on Craig’s 65th birthday.  Beautiful picture with the lake in the background.  


Friday, August 7, 2020

Two Days in Draper

I rode down with Michael to our Draper home.  I went down to our draper home for two days. I cleaned up our place from when Stacy and her family stayed a week there.  That was a month ago just getting down to clean and grocery shop at Costco.  It is Craig’s 65th birthday on Monday so wanted to find him something.  He is on Medicare now - crazy !  I’m back at the lake -  I have been cooking for Cole three meals a day in between his missionary training classes- he has a really tight schedule.  We have three more weeks and he will be leaving for Alaska the 24th of August.  The time is going by too fast. We have had Landon here three weeks too.  He hasn’t wanted to go home.  But he will have to start school soon.  Most are still doing online schooling. We have had a very busy summer with family-  the Burbidge family are all here this weekend.  I rode back up to the lake with them.  We had all the Noriega family last weekend and the week before the Thomas family.  They have come in shifts-  so I’m cleaning up between each shift and getting ready for the next family check in- Cooking and Cooking !  Hard to lose any weight!  It felt good to have a few days to myself and break from cooking. It was a quick trip down and back.  I went to Costco and got more groceries.  It is very expensive I can tell things have gotten more expensive-  I spent $350 dollars at the local market in Montpellier on Tuesday and then $450 at Costco.  We are going through the food.  I’m trying to get stocked up too with the virus shut downs never know if the stores will shut down too.  Back in March it was crazy the shelves were empty.  And we were not prepared to go long on what we have.  Our cupboards were bare. So  I have been buying extra each time I go to start building up some food storage.  If things do get really bad I need to be better prepared.  I can see that hard times are coming for many people without work and closed off from each other from the virus.  We are required to wear a mask everywhere we go out in the public.  It is so strange shopping.  It is Craig’s birthday on Monday so I wanted  to find him something.  I just went to Costco and Ross and found what I could. With the small amount of time I had to shop.  I know he needed some sandals and shorts.  I was surprise at Costco they already have fall clothing stocked- so the summer things were not much to choose from.  

Monday, August 3, 2020

Token of Love

I received the sweetest note today from one of my nieces which means all the world to me- it was so unexpected, never know the impact you can have on another’s life by simple acts of love- 
Hi Aunt Debbie,
I love seeing all of your cute family photos on Facebook. Thank you for being such an inspiration in my life. I can’t tell you how much your kindness and love has meant to me over the years. You are an incredible woman and I’m so glad that you and Uncle Craig have each other. What a beautiful, loving and successful family you have created together. I still have my baby blanket you made for me tucked in my nightstand by my bed and when I feel my worst, it is a comfort to me. It has gotten quite tattered over the years and is threadbare, but I still have it and I think about all of the love that went into it. I also know that the wedding blanket you made for Randall and I is still being used daily at his house with the kids. Thank you for your love and support all of these years. I can’t wait for you to meet our little Finigan. Hope you all are well. Love you and miss you.

Monday Cleaning Day

I have spent the day cleaning from our last family shift this past weekend.  It felt good to get things cleaned up again.  It has taken me all day.  I fixed pancakes for breakfast and turkey sandwiches for lunch and grilled chicken for dinner.  Feeding Cole on his break between class time. 

Saturday, August 1, 2020

Come Follow Me Lesson


This weeks lesson in Alma 39-42 -teachings of Alma the younger to his own sons.  Very powerful teachings and apply to our day as the same truths taught then about 74bc -  there was much contention in the land and many following away from the true teachings -Alma 4:19 And this he did that he ​​​himself​ might go forth among his people, or among the people of Nephi, that he might ​​​preach​ the ​​​word​ of God unto them, to ​​​stir​ them up in ​​​remembrance​ of their duty, and that he might pull down, by the word of God, all the pride and craftiness and all the contentions which were among his people, seeing no way that he might reclaim them save it were in bearing down in pure ​​​testimony​ against them.
Alma 31:5 -5 ​And now, as the ​​​preaching​ of the ​​​word​ had a great tendency to ​​​lead​ the people to do that which was just—yea, it had had more powerful effect upon the minds of the people than the sword, or anything else, which had happened unto them—therefore Alma thought it was expedient that they should try the virtue of the word of God.- from these two scriptures the Word of God is the most powerful to change the hearts of men to do good and repent of their sins.   Alma boldly went about the people teaching the word of God.  
This gives me the confidence I need to know that sharing the word of God with others -this is what will have more effect upon their minds and can pierce the heart enough for others to want to make changes in their lives to repent and come unto God.  Alma’s son Corianton had committed sexual sin, and Alma, as he often did, trusted the power of true doctrine to encourage repentance. 
When someone we love has made a serious mistake, it can be hard to know how to respond. Part of what makes Alma 39–42 so valuable is that it reveals how Alma—a disciple of Christ who once had his own grievous sins to repent of—handled such a situation.-  I have gained a glimpse of how Alma must have felt when his own son went after the Harlot in another land- and forsake the teaching of his youth from his father.  I’m sure he was so disappointed and felt great sorrow.  I felt these same feelings as one  sins-   I know Michael is searching and hurting inside.  He feels a void In his life - Asking myself how do I handle the situation?  He isn't wanting to participate in our come follow me lesson time as a family- yet this is the time we do gather and learn about the gospel teachings.  We need the word of God to give us strength and courage to withstand the temptations and challenges that are before us.  I realize as his Grandmother I need to speak up and teach him the word of God this is what will have the most effect in changing his heart and helping him be strengthen.  By my example and not being afraid to speak up.  I did let him know how disappointed I was in his behavior and that I expect more out of him.  Not in our home is he to act this way.  I was just so surprised I have not known how to handle the situation-  I have been praying for the insight.  I have treated him with love and respect.  I want him to feel our love in our home and not contention.  Being bold in still expressing my feelings about the true teachings of God is what will change his behavior in time and more powerful than anything I can do.  This lesson has been an answer of prayer for me to not give up and to speak up -to teach the word of God. -In these chapters, we observe Alma’s boldness in condemning sin and his tenderness and love for Corianton his son- And ultimately, we sense Alma’s confidence that the Savior “shall come to take away [sins and] declare glad tidings of salvation” to those who repent. It is a lesson to learn about the power of Jesus Christ in our own lives -the gift of repentance is the power that will bring us back into the presence of our Heavenly Father.   Alma 39:15 And now, my son, I would say somewhat unto you concerning the ​​​coming​ of Christ. Behold, I say unto you, that it is he that surely shall come to take away the sins of the world; yea, he cometh to declare glad tidings of salvation unto his people.-  this scripture was recorded 74 years before the birth of Jesus Christ- having faith the Savior would come and by his life and example bring Salvation to all men if we will repent and turn to God-  Jesus atone for all mankind’s sins- he is the mediator between us and God.  I believe the Savior did come to redeem his people in the meridian of time and that he will come again to redeem us at his second coming as foretold by the prophets of old and today.  Our hope is to repent and Come unto Christ-  
Alma 49:30 ​Yea, and there was continual peace among them, and exceedingly great prosperity in the church because of their heed and diligence which they gave unto the word of God, which was declared unto them by Helaman, and Shiblon, and Corianton, and Ammon and his brethren, yea, and by all those who had been ordained by the ​​​holy order​ of God, being baptized unto repentance, and sent forth to preach among the people. -The fact that Corianton eventually returned to the work of the ministry (see Alma 49:30) can give us hope for forgiveness and redemption when we are “trouble[d]” (Alma 42:29) about our own sins or the sins of someone we love.-   
Quote I felt very powerful - Elder Jeffrey R. Holland Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles-  One who uses the God-given body of another without divine sanction abuses the very soul of that individual, abuses the central purpose and processes of life. - Come follow me lesson this week - I felt greatly impressed as I read the ensign talk Attached - reading this talk brings my soul to tears as I feel the pains of sexual abuse as a child- I felt it hurt my very soul-  quote from this talk -precious” truths restored in this dispensation is that “the spirit and the body are the soul of man” and that when the spirit and body are separated, men and women “cannot receive a fulness of joy.”-The body is an essential part of the soul. This distinctive and very important Latter-day Saint doctrine underscores why sexual sin is so serious.-... In exploiting the body of another—which means exploiting his or her soul—one desecrates the Atonement of Christ, which saved that soul.... Ye [have been] bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.”  In sexual transgression the soul is at stake—the body and the spirit.